Honest Conversations 07/31/2011
"You never find yourself until you face the truth." ~Pearl Bailey (1918-1990) I love having write your life right sessions. I declare it is one of the most provocative things I have done with my life. But there are a few things that I have noticed over the last 7 months. Some people have a lot of excuses reasons for being where they are in life. And most of the time I feel it is ... okay, I won't sugar coat it. It's a lie. We tell ourselves these lies to feel better about our situations. I did it and you may be doing it. This "censoring" or "lies of omission" hinders the healing process. me when I say, we aren't judging you. I try to put my clients at ease by sharing my story with them. I am as open and vulnerable as I can possibly be. I am setting the stage for clients to reciprocate. This honesty is important for three reasons (of course there are more-- but here are the main three). It gives your teacher/therapist/counselor the opportunity to help you, aids in processing the core emotions, and it allows you to heal. Yes, complete honesty may be hard, and a little hurtful --but it is needed. I remember the first time I wrote my life right. Tears were everywhere. But once I did it; once I wrote all of the things I didn't want to admit-- the hard truths that required me to open my mind and heart-- the tears started mending my broken spirit. I was able to see everything for what it was and not simply what I wanted it to be. It was beautiful. It was wonderful. I was able to take responsibility for my actions, learn from my mistakes, and offer myself some solace. I forgave myself for some of my negative thoughts and released a lot of the shame, anger, and pain I had been harboring in my little heart. My truth set me free. For those who do the work, it is an exhilarating experience. Add Comment Believe in your dreams! 06/30/2011
First, I would like to say welcome to Ms. Danielle Moore - the new digital and new media assistant. She manages the Twitter, Facebook pages, and the blog. You will recognize her name on many of the Good Morning Beautiful People messages; she has taken to them like a fish in water. Be sure to stop by and say hello. Her spirit has been refreshing and a joy to be around. I am really glad she has joined the team. This month has been full of dreams coming true. You best believe that every dream has been written down and I can check them off the list. What are you dreaming about right now? And what is holding you back from making that dream come true? Remember: Write it down! 1 YEAR ANNIVERSARY 05/31/2011
A year ago, I was sitting in my friends' apartment wondering how my life went off course and what I could do to change it. So much has changed since that day. I set out on a new adventure...to live life to the fullest. I knew that things needed to change and I had to push fear to the wayside. I wrote down my goals and one by one they have come into fruition: 1. I took the GRE and did very well. 2. I was accepted into my graduate program of choice. 3. I moved to Seattle, Washington. 4. I got a full time job within the first two weeks I was here and it pays 3 times more than what I was making before. 5. I found an apartment that was safe, affordable, close to public transportation, and easy to get in/out of downtown and my job. 6. I moved myself away from people who didn't believe in me or support the vision I have for my life. 7. I stopped asking for permission to live my own life. 8. I started connecting with my Higher Self on a regular basis. 9. I launched Write Your Life Right. 10. I conducted workshops and took on private clients. 11. I actually earned money while doing something I love!!!! 12. I travelled to Washington, DC -- 2 times! ( *Yay* I love that place!) 13. And I found my passion! Life is so good! Living in Seattle has given me the inspiration to fulfill the work that I know my soul yearns to do - encouraging people to give themselves permission to live out their soul's dream. Here's to another year of fabulousness! | AuthorTamara N. Boynton is the founder of Write Your Life Right. She is an artist, writer, and educator based out of Seattle, Washington. ArchivesCategoriesAll |
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